When it comes to oral sex, most men hear the same advice, over and over:
“Just write the alphabet with your tongue, and you're good to go.”
Sure, I won't deny that that technique works sometimes… but that's the thing–it only works sometimes. (Plus, if every guy is doing it, it's quite likely there are a lot of women who are bored of it by now.)
Starting at the bottom of her labia, use your tongue to lick upward toward her clitoris. Go slow–if you go too fast, she may become too sensitive or not experience as much pleasure as she possibly can.
Once you hit her clit, lick back down the other side of her labia. Keep moving up and down like this, and experiment with both your breath and speed.
If you notice her breathing increasing, or if she starts to moan, then keep doing what you’re doing–that means she likes it.
2) The “Aphrodite Technique”
This next one is a little more intermediate–but the payoff is huge when properly executed.
Start off by separating her vaginal lips with your tongue, and use as little pressure as possible.
Make your way up to her clitoris, then move your tongue in a swirling motion all around her clitoral hood. Keep doing this until you notice her getting wetter and more excited. Resist the urge to increase your pressure.
Once she seems like she’s about to explode, then you can increase the pressure and pace of your movements.
Pro Tip: Move your tongue between her clitoris and her labia for a truly pleasurable experience.
And if you really want to take her over the edge, try sucking her clitoris. But be careful–some women are more sensitive to this technique than others, so make sure she’s comfortable and enjoying it every step of the way.
3) On The Edge of Her Seat
This one puts her, quite literally, on the edge of her seat–and for good reason, too.
It’s especially great if you’re used to the “same ol’ same ol’” when it comes to oral, because it goes beyond the typical, “write the alphabet with your tongue” advice that most guys hear growing up.
Have her lie back, and place your arms beneath her thighs for leverage (she should be straddling your face).
From there, it’s really up to you how to do it. Depending on your style, she can either use her own strength to grind her hips against your face, or you can take control and send her over the edge on your own.
In fact, if you want to spice things up even more, you could even throw a vibrator into the mix! (Never underestimate the power of using a good vibrator with a woman–trust me.)
At the end of the day, the key is to make sure that whatever you do to her *down there* feels good. And of course, it’s even better if it ends in a hot-as-hell orgasm. 😉
According to Shanna Katz, sexologist, sex educator, and author of Oral Sex That’ll Blow Her Mind: An Illustrated Guide to Giving Her Amazing Orgasms Opens a New Window:
It’s awesome for guys to say, [giving oral sex] is going to be part of my sexual repertoire. It makes you look like you’re interested in your partner’s pleasure, which is something that makes you a great partner.”
Though if you would rather wait for her to orgasm during sex, then I totally understand…
So if that’s the case, here’s a cool technique you can use to give her an insane amount of pleasure & make her crave your “manhood”:
The #1 Technique to Give Her More Orgasms During Oral…
As a woman, I loooove a guy with a talented tongue… but you know what’s even better?
However… I will admit that some fingering techniques work a lot better than others… and for me personally, this 5-Finger “Tantra Technique” feels the best. *mmmmmm*
It’s unlike most other fingering techniques I’ve seen or experienced… (goes way beyond “stick two fingers inside her and make a *come hither* motion”)… and it’s perfect to use during oral, because you only need one hand to do it.
Plus, because it gives her an orgasm super fast (like < 5 minutes for me)… you can save the rest of your energy for the main event. 😉
Beyond Oral: Discover The “Deep Spot” Orgasm for MAXIMUM Pleasure (For Both Of You)
Obviously, if you’re giving her amazing oral… then eventually, things will probably escalate to sex. 😉 And one sexual technique that my girlfriends & I go head-over-heels CRAZY for is called the “Deep Spot” Technique.
If you’ve never heard of a woman’s “Deep Spot” (most men haven’t)… it’s this tiny fleshy patch deep inside of her (like a few centimeters north of her G-Spot)… and it’s jam-packed with mega-sensitive nerve-endings.
So when you stimulate it juuuuust right… usually, after a few minutes, it builds into this sheet-soaking, toe-curling release… for both of you. 🙂
(Note: If you’ve ever wanted to experience a “simultaneous orgasm” with a woman, then this technique is great for that.)
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