How To Attract Women Easily & Sleep With More Hot Girls Just By Showing Off a Few Little-Known Qualities…
One of the things usually revealed on a night out is the distinction between what I see and what my clients see.
Guys often talk to me about the things they miss, or they ask how I saw the things they didn’t.
I’ve realized now that guys don’t recognize all their senses.
What do I mean by Senses?
Well, I’m really referring to the fact that we use different senses for different things.
When I’m washing a glass, it’s usually my sense of sight that tells me when it’s clean: my eyes. I can see the marks, or the color.
Washing an iron pot, or brushing my teeth, though, it’s my sense of touch that lets me know I’ve gotten them clean–my fingers for a pot, or my tongue with my teeth.
Yeah, you know all about THOSE five senses.
I’d like to tell you about five other senses, that are just as important when it comes to filling your social calendar, and your arms, and your bed.
1) Propriety
When you’re having a conversation in a public place with a woman you’ve just met, what sense lets you know what you can and can’t say?
Your sense of propriety–and even the bluest-cursing sailor has one–is an internal advisor of what is expected and what is accepted in social situations.
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You want to recognize whether you–or the woman you’re talking to–are respecting, toeing, crossing or ignoring the line between acceptable and unacceptable.
Paying attention to her, and others–and their reaction and responses–helps you see and learn what behavior stands out negatively.
For example, insulting the helpless stands out negatively, while interrupting yourself to help someone who’s struggling stands out positively.
And what tells you the kind of person she’s looking for?
2) Self
Your sense of self.
Some people–and my clients are often among them–have a strong resistance to pretending. They don’t want to pretend to be someone they’re not.
Well, I couldn’t agree with them more.
You know your depths better than most other people can know them.
If you’re talking to someone who wants to have political conversations and you don’t like discussing politics, now is not a time to bring out your violent hatred for polarizing discussions.
Rather you can find other things about yourself to present.
“I love the way you put that together. Most people just say they don’t like him. The way you’ve explained it, it’s easy to understand. You gave a good picture and three different examples! Did you do debates when you were in school?” For example.
There are things in your personality that she IS looking for, and things in hers that YOU like. Focus on the things that pull you together until you’re ready to move on.
What tells you she’s playful and tells her you’re confident enough not to take yourself too seriously?
3) Humor
Your sense of Humor is not shown when you recite jokes.
It’s also not limited to when you turn the things she says or the things you say into instant places to laugh–or to make her laugh.
Your sense of Humor is largely recognized when you stay COOL under pressure.
Here are some specific examples of things that are not jokes, yet make a woman–particularly one you are attracted to–laugh, and recognize your sense of humor:
Her: Are you trying to f*ck me?
You: Not here.
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You: [when she has touched you for any reason (pre-rapport, of course)] I didn’t say you could touch me.
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Her: You have a bunch of girls all over.
You: Yes, but only you have green eyes.
I want you to notice that the first and third are not leaps of imagination or comic twists and do NOT require (or really benefit from) clowning delivery.
The main point to realize is YES–you agree with her attempt to attack. You are not defensive.
The second example (breaking rapport) is different because it turns the dynamics on their head with what we call a takeaway. We have talked and will talk more about those in other articles.
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Here are some more humorous examples that would probably also be effective, to show the difference between self-acceptance and comedy.
Her: Why do you wear the hat? Are you balding up there?
You: Yep, and there’s a metal plate and a fan keeping the electronics cool.
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Her: Your hair’s a bit of a mess.
You: O-Em-G, I thought this was how the cool kids were wearing it…. now I feel self-conscious. It took SO long to get it this messy!
What is effectively your “sense of humor” or what a girl means when she says, “I like a guy that makes me laugh,” is your self-acceptance. She doesn’t shake your self-image.
And she shouldn’t, since whether or not this first or second interaction ends in NOTHING, you still are the same person and in the same situation.
What about the ability to keep things interesting, though?
The ability to change subjects or lead her to new experiences–across the bar, across the street, across the city or into your bedroom?
4) Adventure
You’ll notice that your sense of Adventure is very similar to your sense of humor.
Your sense of Adventure–extremely attractive to a woman, especially one who doesn’t know you yet–is also a cool acceptance of what’s happening in front of you.
Your sense of humor is emotional acceptance, while your sense of adventure is physical acceptance.
For example:
Her: Where does that door go?
You: Let’s take a look.
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You: I think we have to try that bar they were talking about.
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You: Let’s satisfy our curiosity
These kinds of statements and actions let her face unexpected things. On top of that, they give her the expectation that the inevitable unplanned moments in your interactions (and in her future) can be OK.
How do you know what you can get away with, though?
Who’s out of your league, and who, meanwhile, is not good enough?
5) Proportion
What I’m really talking about here is not necessarily ambition, but kind of an acceptance of your goals or desires.
In other words, I’m not necessarily trying to encourage you to be bold with your statements or picky in your mate choices. That’s a different conversation.
What I’m talking about is not to limit yourself because you’re uncomfortable with what you want, or what you want to say, or who you want to be with.
This is kind of like pre-acceptance of the reality in front of you.
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If you say that crazy thing in your head…
Or for that matter say anything to that “Goddess”…
Or try to get into that club…
You are going to get a reaction.
And by now I hope you know that the reaction will be “yes,” “no,”or “maybe.”
That maybe could come in the form of words or deeds.
In other words, you will immediately get an opportunity to exercise–and show off–your sense of humor or your sense of adventure.
Your sense of Proportion is the most important, and comes before all other “secret senses” because it causes them.
And here’s how it can cause more hot girls to jump into bed with you:
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There are 2 main benefits of having a good sense of Proportion:
1) You will attract more women in your day-to-day life, just by doing nothing.
This is because when you know exactly what you can get away with… it can make you seem a little “ballsy.”
(And it’s common knowledge that women love ballsy men… almost as if it’s hardwired into their brains.)
2) You will be able to turn things sexual with a woman a LOT faster.
In my personal experience, I’ve found that you have to touch a woman if you want to get her into bed, or even get her to like you.
But if you touch her in the wrong place, or at the wrong time you risk coming off as a creep… so you have to know exactly what you can get away with.
For example, I only like touching women in 3 specific spots when I first meet them.
And that’s because these spots seem very innocent… BUT the more you touch her here, the more she’ll get turned on…
You might notice that she holds eye contact for longer… or starts twirling her hair…
… and eventually she’ll start touching you too. 😉
I like to do this with every woman I meet, because it gives you the option to sleep with her that same night… (instead of after the 3, 4 or more dates it usually takes)…
And my favorite part?
She won’t even know you’re doing it on purpose, so when she wakes up in your bed the next morning she’ll feel like “it just happened”:
