Did You Know: Foreplay can make or break whether a woman thinks you’re dynamite or dull in bed?
For men, we can skip the foreplay altogether. But for women, foreplay is arguably more important than the actual sex.
In fact, great sex can be the hallmark of a fulfilling relationship.
The actual sexual act, however, is only the finale of a long, complicated process, every part of which needs your attention and care.
That’s why you need to avoid being too predictable.
Don’t be like a robot and think in terms of formulas.
Exactly two minutes kissing. Two minutes fingering. Two minutes playing with her boobs. Every. Single. Time.
That’s how you get the reputation of a dud in the sack!
Instead, foreplay should be fun and spontaneous. Even if you are not ending with actual sex, foreplay itself can be immensely hot if done right.
So if you’re looking for a little something extra to bring to the table the next time you and your woman hit the sack, you’re in luck.
Here are 10 foreplay tips that can take your game to the next level and guarantee you and your partner new and exciting experiences.
#1: How to Get Hot and Heavy BEFORE You’re in the Bedroom
That’s easy. Sexting.
Sexting can be a great way to get the blood flowing and bringing the naughty thought front and center.
Upping your sexting game and getting really into it can help get both of you into the mood. A poignant idea is to start early on in the day.
Making it a whole-day affair increases anticipation and heightens the buildup to the final, exciting climax.
For effective sexting, here are some things to text her:
- Previews of what is about to come
- Compliments to your partner
- Reliving past memories
- Specific requests for when you do get it on
- And mentioning specific fantasies you would love to act out
For more ideas, check out this article by Rebecca Blanton.
#2: Get More Intimate and Turn Up the Heat with Fantasies
Sexual fantasies can be a great source of arousal.
We all have them.
Yes, even seemingly “good girls” have sexual fantasies.
One great way to incorporate this into your foreplay is to share fantasies with your partner and then choose specific fantasies you both want to try.
Start small and simple.
Then work your way towards more elaborate fantasies to keep the excitement building.
#3: This Popular Method Can Add Fun and Excitement into Nearly Any Relationship
For couples looking to spice things up, roleplay can be a savior.
Thinking outside your own personalities can have a powerful effect on arousal and this is what roleplay can achieve for you.
There are tons of roleplay options to choose from.
Strangers at a bar.
Bored housewife and the mailman.
Teacher and student.
The options are endless.
Specific fictional personality traits can help bring out the heights of arousal in your partner.
Experiment with these traits and find out what works for you.
#4: Get Out of Your Routine and Try Something New!
Add some spice by incorporating exciting new elements to your foreplay.
If you are comfortable enough with each other, consensual dominance play or bondage can be fun.
Mild pain and the feeling of submission can work great for some people in terms of arousal and creating the right psychological state for rewarding sex.
Figure out what works for you and your partner.
And don’t be afraid to experiment.
#5: The Best Type of Touch for Foreplay
Often, the best foreplay involves getting your partner relaxed and comfortable and gradually working towards sexual stimulation.
One of the ways to achieve this is to give your partner a stellar sexy massage.
This can make her relaxed.
Puts her in the mood.
And you get to explore her body and curves.
Everyone wins.
#6: How to Get Her Hot (Literally)
Hot and cold temperatures and the sensations they provide can play a big role in arousal.
Incorporating this in your foreplay can lead to wonderful results.
Ice cubes.
Molten wax.
Heating or cooling lubricants.
These can all be fun and interesting ways to influence your arousal.
Combining both can take things to the next level.
#7: Drive Her WILD With Playful Teasing
Sometimes, NOT doing something can be more powerful than actually doing it.
Like going down on your partner but making them wait for several minutes while you just kiss around her p*ssy and thighs.
This is especially true if your partner is expecting or looking forward to you doing it.
The psychological tension of waiting can make for explosive orgasms.
BRAND-NEW: The Fastest Way to Give Any Girl Multiple EXPLOSIVE Orgasms…
Figure out what your partner wants you to do at specific moments.
Then make them wait.
Take your time and give your partner hints about doing it to heighten anticipation.
#8: Incorporate Visual Stimulation
Sometimes, looking at something hot with your partner can work wonders for arousal.
Some studies indicate that watching porn with each other can often lead to the use of new or rarely used foreplay techniques. that can really spice up your foreplay and create interesting results.
This can be a great way to keep things new and fresh.
#9: Explore Her Body
You may have been together for years.
But there are tons of little known “erogenous zones” (areas of the body that can cause sexual stimulation) that you may not be aware of in your partner yet.
If you keep exploring, you might discover new, exciting things about your partner.
You can then incorporate these in your next round of foreplay to great effect.
#10: Focus on the Foreplay, Not the Sex
Sometimes, the best way for two people to understand the importance of foreplay and enjoy it thoroughly is to go about it without preconceived notions or expectations.
Don’t just do it because it will lead to sex.
Actually enjoy it.
It’s vital to understand that foreplay can be enjoyed and savored as a standalone thing and does not need to lead to sex every time.
Investing mentally in the foreplay can bring new enjoyment and might even help you and your partner climax before you actually go on to have sex.
What A Playboy Radio Host, Couple’s Counselor, and Sex Therapist Says Are The Best Foreplay Moves?
This last one is pretty interesting…
Especially since it comes from a hot Playboy hostess (and sex therapist!).
It was literally her job to tell men how to make their wives come.
And not just have a regular old clitoral, one and done orgasm…
But the kind of orgasm that has women uncontrollably shaking with pleasure, and losing all motor skills.
The kind of orgasms that will leave your bed sheets drenched, and have your woman forgetting where she is at the moment.
According to Jess, in order to give a woman these kinds of unforgettable orgasms that’ll leave women addicted to your touch (and your c**k)… you HAVE to start with a solid foundation of foreplay.
She’s put together her and her hot girlfriends’ FAVORITE foreplay moves that make them really hot and bothered for you… and put it all in this video where she reveals EVERYTHING…
